Yes, what you just described made you a racist. Not to fret, though. I would encourage you to watch this video, and you will begin to understand the errors of your ways.
I absolutely detest white women who say they’re not racist, just because they date black men. That doesn’t disqualify any of you, Miss!
BTW, Dr. Robin DiAngelo is brilliant. She’s the white woman in the video and has many videos explaining what white people don’t want to know about themselves. Peace!